About Saying “No”…

We South Africans struggle to say “No”. Most English-speaking people face this. Norwegians do not. As we grow older our stream of “No” defines our legacy better than our stream of “Yes”. After 58 years I cannot remember one instance of a “No” costing me spiritually or financially. I recall many “Yes” replies that derailed … Read more

How a Deadline Affects Us…

A deadline means a Treasure chest of memories beats a box of cash Someone who faced a terminal deadline said this to me… I met a young Dutch man with a deadline a few years ago. He lived in an apartment next door to Granny. Gran lives in a block on a beach on the … Read more